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Seems strange that so many things can happen between two person, when both person could be living happily but they are not.. seems even more strange how a fairytale love story could turn into something so wrong.



No matter what happens, it comes down to this question: Either you love or you dont. And once thats sorted out, its easier to continue down the path u have chosen. Until you decide to choose the other option.



Its always true that bystanders see the most clearly, that we are able to know whats going on with both parties. You ask, " If only he knows how much pain i am feeling now for the way his treating me, if only he would care" If he know's, he wouldnt be doing this.. If everyone know what others will feel abou them, than they wouldnt be doing all sorts of things..



He will never know and why should he know what you are feeling? For you are the one feeling it and not him. He might not even care, or he might but because he doesnt wish to be involved anymore, his pulling out..



Cry once, and learn from it.. these thorns in life are there for you to trip over and to hurt yourself on. But once pass, they will provide you with the invaluable lesson that "life goes on".

One time

one love
my one heart
my one life for sure
let me tell you one time, girl I love, girl I love you
I'll be your one guy
you'll be my #1 girl,
always making time for you
I'ma tell you one time

Something i read

Sometimes, we dont realise that we are going overboard with our emotions while searching for the perfect person. We constantly live in denial that the perfect person is just somewhere out there.

Sadly to say, that "perfect person" has flaws as well. There is always something wrong with the person we meet, and we (blindly) choose to overlook the good qualities in them.

The fundemental truth:
The problem lies in our incapability of acceptances.
That builts a brittle foundation in the relationship
as we continue to search in vain for perfection.
-Audrey-

That was from a friend of a friend.. found it super meaningful.. and true too.. people are always in search of perfection, the perfect someone out there. When u break up, dont ppl always tell you "Dont worry, ur prince charming is just out there waiting for you." But how true can that be?

When you are sitting alone on the mrt, and there's a couple sitting opposite you, dont you sometimes wonder, what is it that makes them stick together no matter what? to make them hold on to each other despite each others flaw..

Sometimes, all of us just has to lower our own expectations and be thankful for what we have.. this, will ultimately make all of us happier..

without a doubt,
u blew me away.
and all thats left,
is my own ashes.

why

when something happens, i'm the one. when something is needed, i'm the one. when the call for help comes, i'm the one. when push comes to shove, i'm the one.

one question: why?

going through the motions

though its just the second day of school, can see that projects are going to pile up and assignments too, don really have the motivation to do anything for today, reach home and slacked all the way.. got to snap out of this.. everyday's going to turn out like the others.. and school hour's are crazy..

so what does these all mean? all those crazy feelings, emotions, thoughts and senses.. every action done and all, what does it all represent? make sense of it? i wish i could, but its just hard sometimes.. i don like it, when all these comes about again.. and i start to question once more.. trying to live through everyday, its nerve wrecking. i cant seem to get a grip, when it comes down to it, am i what i propose to be, what i set out to be? am i worthy of all these, values, responsibility and feelings, am i suppose to feel this way..

looking back

seeing how things turn out, guess that i make the right choice ba..

looking back through the years, seems that every little incident, heartaches, emotions felt.. was a lesson in itself. teaching me how to go on with life and smile every single day no matter what. things may not turn out the way that i want, but the fact that it turn out at all, just goes to show that life will still go on even if we wallow in self pity and all that kind of stuff..

to all my friends, those whom i talk to regularly and those whom i might have neglected, thanks for all the lessons you guys taught me, the memories shared, the tears cried.. i appreciate each and every single one of you. Those lessons form part of me now, and they will forever be there for me to fall back on and learn and know that in this world, as long as we smile, it will be alright.

friends,
are somebody,
that you need, yearn, love
and can never live without..

Infatuation and Mature Love, whats the difference?

Was out yesterday with yu duan, went to see the movie called surrogates.. its a show where everyone has a robot that is tune to their brainwaves. All they have to do is stay at home, plug in to the machine and they can send their robots out to live their life.

Watching the show, it reminds me of how alike everyone is. With regards to wearing masks and all. Everyone will always have some kind of mask in place to show the world, never daring to show the world the true face of themselves. Fearing to get hurt and all..

Was walking around shawhouse before the movie and saw many couples.. all in their secondary school clothings, wonder if what they have is true love or just infatuation. And besides, how do they distinguish it anyway. Today, the guy might tell the girl she's the most beautiful woman he has ever lay eyes on. Tomorrow, he might tell her, i need my freedom, i dont want to be shackeld down to a relationship. So what must the girl do?

Immature love says: I love you because i need you.
Mature love says: I need you because i love you.
-Eric Fromm-